Guys, here is an other article on how to deal when you're an incel and knowing the blackpill. These recent weeks were quiet calm on the internet. Rehab Room uploaded some of his videos. We have watched all of them, both the ITV and the new ones and it is never boring. What we notice is the amount of precision Rehab is capable of. A lot of times youtubers just try to give a simplified representation of the reality. But Rehab is often very accurate. Yes, without any ambiguity it is hard like never before to be a man, like never before you struggle to exist and you almost feel the rage coming from other people, especially when you want to change your condition for the better. Guys it has been years I have been on the improvement side, improvement is very difficult, often you need to leave your family, your friends for at least years of complete loneliness, and at the end either you survive from it or you fail. In this third article we would like to share with you some other advices and tools in order to make your journey to improvement better, with less suffering. Indeed
If you didn't see the Rehab room's video : Navigating the workplace we encourage you to take a look, basically Rehab explains that you have to be very careful when you are at the workplace. You have to not share too much details about your personal life and objectives. And this is totally true, when you are at your job, for the vas majority of the jobs you have to be quite careful when it comes to talk about your personal life. Usually people are jealous and hateful, so if they want to know something about you, this is not to help you, it is for them. This is why you need to keep the secret about the majority of your informations. When you have to tell some informations, tell it, but when you don't need, just avoid doing it.
Before you begin your improvement track, you might have some people and friends with who you talk often. But when you begin to show to people that you don't accept the life of humiliation and that you really want to improve your life : that you want to improve the quality of your life, your skills, your knowledge, your social circle, the place you live, all of a sudden these people begin to change and try to dissuade you from beginning your journey. First they try to "shut you down", that is to say that these people will often speak to you in a negative way so that you accept being defeated, they will tell you something like : "Guy ! You have to accept the reality ! It is over !" or "Guy ! You have not accomplished a lot of stuff don't dream !". You need to go away from these people. We can tell you by experience and with a high level of certainty that these people only want two things from you : your time and your attention. And they absolutely hate seeing you climbing the ladder; for the simple reason that they refused to climb it well before you.
You really have to understand that such people are everything except your friends, they are your enemies, your foes, but not friends, because they want you down and not up. So when you will start you journey if you haven't yet you might notice some people treating you badly or completely vanishing from your social circle. You can refuse it and keep talking to them, or accept success and forget about them.
Sometimes the situation is so terrible, that you have the impression that other people really want to obliterate you. You receive so much negative things from other people that you begin to have doubts, you begin to think : "Oh ! Maybe I am not suited for this; maybe I should do something else". Don't listen to these thoughts because other people are jealous and want to see you loose. Why ? Simply because resources are scarce : expensive cars are scarce, money is scarce, so people want the material things for them AND NOT you. They don't want to have the same level as you, they want to be better than you. Of course we don't talk about everyone, we talk about some trend present in so many people in specific conditions: such as your work, and some people surrounding you, but this is real. So by knowing that you quickly understand that even if all of these people try to do everything to shut you down, you have to push further, with more strength, with more intensity and commitment. It is you or them, but victory after that is so tasteful that if you taste it one time, you become addicted and you want to try it again.
This can occur to all of us, sometimes you feel lonely, sad and abandoned, but don't forget that the enemy is looking at you, the enemy wants you down, wants you sad, wants you addicted and weak so that he can take your resources and enslave you to the very end. You have to consider it always and never let the enemy see any weakness in you. Refuse disrespect and answer to it when it is possible. Don't let anyone spit on you : at school, at university, at work, even if you think it comes from you looks. And we will take an example: do you consider a hippopotamus as attractive ? Let us answer : not at all, but no one dares to approach them because they instinctively know that going to close to a hippo is exactly taking a one way ticket to hereafter. So you don't mess with a hippo, you don't provocate a hippo, this has to be the same with you, you need to seem so dangerous that people will not even dare to attack you, therefore avoid pink and flashy colors except if this is needed. Always try to look serious and a little bit dangerous, it is better to be feared than loved. In our case as incels, we can only be feared.
And what we mean about that is obviously maybe finding a woman and happiness. Because you never know, at the beginning you are not attractive but after so much improvement, so much kilometers run, so much kilograms lifted so much book read, so much PRP, stem cell injections, hair transplants realised you might look attractive at the end of the day. And at the end of the day you might unlock some access to some women, and that's why you should always leave a door open to talk with women even if this is exclusively to improve your social skills. And if you are rejected remember then that attractiveness and beauty don't last forever and that the same women that rejected you in the past will loose their beauty ultimately, so no one lasts forever and that's what makes it not so dramatic.
Yes for sure, you have decided to improve, but you need also to find peaceful moments in your day, in your week, in your life. Because otherwise it will be only about work, work, work and you will begin to feel tired, exhausted, defeated. So it can be anything : video-games, programming, outdoor activity, restaurants, as long as you can control it and that you enjoy it. This will help you increase your stamina and let you continue the battle with more intensity than ever before. And your enemies won't be able to follow you on what you really enjoy.
There are so many things that could improve one's journey in these truly difficult times, times where enemies are everywhere, friends are scarce and money hidden. But you have to push further and keep doing even if morally it is not easy at all. We believe that to some extend, if you truly do everything to improve your life and that you are able to do so, you will have results, you will have results that will surprise you. We don't tell you that you will be happy at a hundred percent, but in these times, even fifty percent of happiness is more than sufficient. Thank you and see you in the next one !